It is not so complex to find couple in the modern world. It is necessary to use opportunities only correctly. These life hacks will help to draw attention of the unfamiliar girl and will increase your chances at acquaintance in real life and the Internet.
How to get acquainted with the girl in real life
Spontaneous acquaintance in usual life reminds antiquity more and more. And nevertheless, it is one of the most romantic situations about which then it will be possible to tell grandsons.
It has also some other indisputable advantages. First, you always see the real person, but not his processed photo of 10-year. Secondly, you can involve a maximum of the charm: alas, virtual communication still does not transfer all nuances of live.
Here what receptions you can use to get acquainted with the girl in offline mode.
1. Show confidence and openness
At acquaintance in real life nonverbal signals can help you. You remember open poses, steady (but not excessive) visual contact and a sincere smile. They will make half-affairs: will dispose to you the unknown person.
2. Offer the help
The courteous stranger who suggests the girl to carry a huge suitcase or causes to explain the road, as a rule, at its sympathy. Only you should not confuse courtesy with persistence. Usually “no” after all means “no”, and the excessive persistence will definitely not add to you points.
3. Use any available information on the stranger
She goes by the subway and reads a book? Or on it a t-shirt with Darth Vader’s image? Here and a ready subject for the first conversation.
But also, here it is necessary to remember a step. To comment on what is made by the girl in the phone even if she does not close the screen a hand, is obviously not necessary. It borders on invasion into private life.
4. Use a situation
If you are at a concert or an exhibition, then your tastes, most likely, coincide with tastes of the charming stranger and the subject for a conversation will be simpler to be found. But the most usual places can be help also: shop, cafe, gym. Even ordinary grocery store. Why not?
Use an environment as an occasion to start a conversation. Ask, for example, what product or a dish it is better to choose, having noted that the girl looks as the person to whom you could trust. Discuss nuances of a training or life of the area. Generally, involve all resources of daily occurrence to the maximum.
5. Give a compliment
Sure bet if the compliment is deprived of banality, but not refinement. Forget about a cliche like oceans of eyes and falls of hair. But also, be not overzealous with originality: information that the girl has thickness of fingers, best in the world, or ideal curvature of teeth during acquaintance is obviously superfluous.
It is better to refuse smart preparations. The second (the third, fourth and so on) a phrase should correspond to virtuosity of the first. Otherwise all efforts will come to nothing.
If you are not sure of the oratorical abilities, just approach and admit that the girl was pleasant, seemed to you to you interesting. The sincerity is better than any fulfilled tackles.
6. Radiate safety
Acquaintance in real life almost always surprise. And all sudden and unknown borders on danger. Therefore, be extremely tactful, polite and never interfere in a personal zone of the girl. Otherwise your rush of feelings will just frighten her and will force to escape promptly. Even if for the rest all of you will make correctly.
How to get acquainted with the girl on social networks
Advantage of social networks is obvious: they give a lot of information and in some sense simplify the first step. But also there are reefs. Try to apply the following councils to achieve attention of the beautiful stranger.
1. Look for the passion in theme groups
The easiest way to start acquaintance and to find suitable party – to choose on interests. Groups, publics, actions in social networks – it is possible to get acquainted directly there or to address the girl privately. The approximate list of subjects for a conversation will be simple to be thought up.
2. Write messages or comments
If you want to get acquainted, better to show it verbally, but not silently to fill up the girl with tens of likes. In the latter case you will be taken, most likely, for the inadequate or infantile person.
3. You watch the online behavior
Do you publish records about a recent gap from former? Do you post pictures that all women are bitches? You are rude in comments? Then be not surprised that your messages are left without answer.
4. You honor literacy
If punctuality – politeness of kings, then literacy – politeness of Internet users. And still it the first certificate that you have a developed intelligence. Therefore, try not to make at least elementary mistakes. In case of doubts look for answers in dictionaries or on thematic resources.
If you are not sure of the knowledge of Russian, try to pass this test for a start. The result below an average says that it is time to refresh school rules in memory.
5. Avoid extremes
Instant transition on “you” can seem to someone hasty. But also, persistently to write “you”, and from capital letter and to make advances in parallel to stylistics of the 19th century – not the best option. So, you will be taken rather for the naphthalenic odd fellow, than for the interesting and modern man.
How to get acquainted with the girl on a dating site
It would seem, to get acquainted via the specialized websites or services as easy as shelling pears, the girls who are in search use them. But also, there it is not fewer potential satellites. To increase the chances, follow the following rules.
1. Approach filling of a profile intelligently
Do you want the serious relations? Then do not spread (or at least do not make by the main thing) a photo of your torso and other bared parts of the body. Even if you have magnificent cubes. Even if a sin to hide such beauty.
Rely better on pictures which reveal your personality and show your person.
Also be not too lazy to fill in detail a profile and special attention to pay to the section in which interests are specified. You remember: the description will be more concrete; the it is more than chances of a meeting with the suitable person. So do not confine to general phrases.
2. Avoid beginners
The majority of dating sites advertise new users: they are placed on the first pages of search or in special sections which see all others. As a result, beginners (especially girls) receive many messages. So yours can just get lost.
3. Be not familiar
Kind of the girl on a photo reminded you a wild kitty or the princess, you should not inform her on it in the first message. For acquaintance – even on the specialized websites – tender words and tenderness’s are inappropriate.
4. Say “no” to banalities
The websites and dating services create feeling of a wide choice. And considering that girls there in principle receive more messages, than men, the last should be allocated.
Cruel truth: next “hi, how are you” does not cause desire to answer, and standard cross-questioning beats off all draft to continue a conversation.
Be more specific. To start acquaintance, use information which is specified in the girl’s profile, or choose an extraordinary subject for a conversation. For example, suggest to share mad stories from life or to tell about the most unusual dream. So, you will draw attention, will avoid tiresome questioning and melt ice.
5. Also forget about mailings
Some men, having been tired to scribble hundreds of welcome messages, decide to think up one: big, detailed and universal. So, at least, they think. Actually, the text deprived of the individual address is visible at once and attracts even less interest.
Simple council: be defined what woman you look for, spend time to select suitable candidates, and write to them at least on one, but live phrase. If necessary, repeat the procedure. As they say, look for.
Of course, some of the recommendations provided here are universal: and in Network it is necessary to remain tactful, and in real life it is worth watching literacy of the speech. There are also two other trouble-free ways working in any conditions: it is flashing to joke and ask the girl questions, showing thus the interest.